How to regain the hobby of his wife

When you celebrated the moonlight after the first, the most difficult test for sopromatu and you told her how you walk with friends in the mountain lakes are there as a fun time there, and what sings songs by guitar, love your beloved has been limit. She asked all alive, that somehow related to you : listened attentively, fervent laughing, she asked you about him and about.

Years passed ... Alas, after the wedding, she was interested in your obsession with less. And after some time and did stated that in your age and your situation (family) has long been interested in things far more serious (for example, to dig the car, giving more travel, more contact with her family and spend quality time with family, wife).

- As I have loved his Natashku, Igor shares with me, I can not all free time only with her. I have a favorite activity, I fisherman and hunter. And this hobby, I can not replace one : fresh, sizzling cold fall or winter morning, singing birds, cold and mud, swamps on the pitch. Finally, tired and dirty, but a happy, I am happy to once again return to the family ...

No secret that every average man have any hobbies. He hunter or fisherman or tourist routes, or Rolewick gamers ... Unfortunately, rarely visiting his wife love their husbands hobby. And often, even if they accept, time and again trying to win their didst guilt because of the "failure" of family life.
So why wife tolerance of hobbies of their husbands, and that this be done?

A wife is not interesting hobby
And this is indeed the case. Yes, she likes to sleep on the sofa, sometimes with a collection of poems Akhmatova. Yes, it does not look away French melodrama, if you suddenly find it in the TV. Yes, it could draw any faces on a sheet of paper tartan. But this hobby-exciting and interesting, which would be a pity not to spend lots of time and effort, it simply is not and has never been. That is why she can not understand your inexplicable joy after hunting when you are not in power not only with her love, but simply to get out of bed and help her clean potatoes.
What to do?
In such a case, your honourable mission as a man dedicated to help find a wife want to engage in it. This is not simply because she does not really know how best to Saturday evening. If you have no idea about what it can be done, you should just support its ideas. The question "darling, can I learn sewing? "I in no case be responsible" Why do you need this? Take the money and buy any shmotku! "The special support should be in the first phase. There vporu spirit of this idea, so much so that the wife had proposed (hence, the need rukodelnichat it has).

A wife has no time for hobbies
The picture is when your wife have no time for hobbies. In youth it uvlekalas tennis or rescue cats from the yards of housing and communal services in the "green" group, later read or Dreiser wrote poems (some of which were published in local gazetenke). Now that you have a child, a person you have more hobbies, time favorite hobby simply do not exist. Here it zlitsya of inequality in the family!
What to do?
First, you need to escape from their selfishness. Second, recognize the equal rights of women in the hobby. Thirdly, the need to "discharge" wife so and it was time for a favorite cause. When those items will be implemented and it will again write poetry or search for local cats new masters, you will see a change in its attitude towards your hunting or fishing. In the family, as in other respects, the rule "Bach to Bach" is smoothly!

My wife talks to the little girl
If you think your wife with a friend of a wasted wasted time, and constantly vorchish it for a half nedozvon home (telephone busy, and mobile in another room), soon you not pozdorovitsya. The less your wife talks to the girl, the more they will pay attention to you, your hobbies and your family. This "study" Eastern Psychology : fewer external vector becomes your activity, the greater the internal vector grows. "Razognav" girlfriends, you run risk of rudeness in the form : "Are you not know where to put dirty socks? "or" expected to be you would wash dishes? "
What to do?
Let the women peremyvayut pits of some Tanechke of Economic Affairs. Let! But personally to you-no claims. More wife communicates with girl, the more it is diverted to external events, and the less claims will be for you personally.

My wife does not understand your hobbies? "Translate! "
Reason ill wife to your hobby may be found in that it is your hobby simply did not understand. She does not understand how you can sit in a computer igre- strategy until late at night, then not vyspavshis, late to work. Or it did not understand how its legal holidays you can ignore the family and make a turgruppy in winter camp in the mountain village.

In this situation for you and your wife to "translate" it is your hobby in a more simple language. In fact, there are many things that "finger" is not explained. Here, as in the junior school, better use of the principle of "visibility". All you need to do a little. If you ride for tourists, take his wife to survive the camp.
So I will propose it! "complains Vadik. - Refused, said a lot of work.
Not even when offered! I mean, - No inexperienced in the affairs of people would not agree immediately to go to the 5-day trip. Take her to the camp weekend. And that any unfinished home was left, but what good are you going to leave with his wife and her thoughts remain at home. Then, the effect of zero!

Nothing remedied. Agree with friends and grab something to do with fishing-let their wives see that you sit with fishing rods, rather than drinking vodka on the bed or someone else's neighbourhood "shastaete."

As can be seen, there is a solution. Main, like other family matters, exorcise its selfishness and give women what they want. Believe when it is received, you get back index and round-the-clock access to their hobbies.