If the wife does not want sex

Times have unbridled sex in a tiny Khasin, when it was your charm gerlfrend and you were not flat, irretrievably gone. Why do I remember about this apartment, you ask. Yes, because, despite a distressing fact, no nothing and you always have sex. Neither her landlady in an adjacent room with a very sensitive hearing, or neighbors for the wall, which started banged on your cries and cries, or early awakening to work ...

All was then in Kayf, and she wanted you even more than you have it ... But it has provoked you thought about it. He was poshlovatye sms tions during the day (you could not work effectively created for her image), walked around the room in stocking and tempting underwear, naklonyalas to raise the fallen branch or bags, so yes, that the breath away ...

Over time, everything has changed. You married, and you have a first-awaited. In caring for the child and the day their daily bread, you do not notice how sex in your family life seemed almost "no". This means that you are doing this only when your spouse wants. Alas, this is no more ... than 1-2 weeks. Indeed, it is always "tired", "does not want," it was not until this "and" it without many problems. "

In doing so, you absolutely nothing has changed. Are you still want sex at least once a day. And despite the two works not to think about it simply can not. What to do? Renowned "Chernyshevsky" issue psychologist. Or do you imagine? ...

1. Split problem

It is thought that perhaps you really most of the problems (as a minimum household, as a maximum-all) moved to his wife. For her and the child, and life and work and caring for an elderly mother and a younger brother ... With talk, even if only one child is and cooking, and washing, and shops, and the lessons and assemblies at school, and hikes in circuses, etc.

Perhaps the reluctance to engage with you love is not caused by physiological factors. Rather, it is resentment of you, your lack of attention and a reluctance to participate in family tasks. Having her in something, and thereby easing the backlog of problems (by the way, it should always practice), you can break down the wall of resentment, which ran from your wife.

2. Institute and surprise in bed

- I think it was frigidnoy, Vitalik friend tells me. What I have done, it remains cold, and the sex is more violence on her body or person.

A week listening Svetku, Vitalic wife :
- Are you not understand : so many years of living together, and in bed each case the same. Number standard, the light is off. Tired!

- Women had long known that men love us eyes. But we are not blind! We also need visual impression. For example, I can find no better way to inflame than to see how my Sashik moves in a room in their underwear. And so, as a model at the podium, vilyaya thighs ... And I like have prepared, as he daily in the bathroom ... "said another, my girlfriend Masha.

After all, there are so many pos that simply foolish to dwell on a few of them. You must constantly try something new every time astonishing women their knowledge.

3. Sublimate

However, I must admit that all these measures may not help. After all, your wife is also entitled to "a difficult period in life." Understand that you can simply do not know anything. For example, they secretly love to his fellow workers, but neither he nor his family did not want to destroy. That's struggling with her love, passion, his obsessive desire to do so. But it takes time, and then you and your eternal desire sovokupitsya without prelude-style "do it quickly" ... continues

Not wants-not to make! Find sources sublimation. At work, it could be a relaxed, no significant flirting with clients and colleagues. House-pornography on the computer. In the absence of his wife inquiries.

One, my friend is a photographer Egor admirable hobby-photography. He photographs young girls in the style of "menu" and thus sends sexual energy in fotoruslo. Does he thought amend wife? Certainly there. Most importantly, away from Dashi it just is not going. A hobby balovstvom their calls.

4. Change

We are all weak, we are all human beings. And when you on the legs and arms bound by a new passion-frenetic, mad, inexplicable, you can not fight. The new novel is always vyplesk accumulated energy is a new breath of life, it's parallel to the feelings of guilt over his wife, inexplicable ease and joy of life.

... Then again in 1918, you have not wife and Breakfast, apartments and a bank loan on it, responsibilities and authority, which tend to spoil their weekend assignments and plans. Treason is like a good bottle of wine with salt ogurtsom, enjoy not only the head pain ...

Better to spare that done, as that is not done. After all, this is just sex. And it means little compared to this love. But harmony in bed does not mean harmony in other areas. And with the man who had a passion to live together until an older age are you likely will not.

Therefore, his wife Irochke feel tenderness, regret it, a small and fragile, careful. A daft Alka-dancing cat with a long tail, if a bright decorations your life, which can be recalled in a single cold night ... This is different things, you do not want to mix them. And nothing will spare no ...

5. Divorce

But if cold air is shaking in your apartment, not sogrevaetsya if, coming home, you do not want to share with his wife when life is no longer welcome, must not be the victims. Razvodis! Perhaps your wife has long wanted the same, but maybe look in the eyes of relatives razrushitelnitsey home. And, perhaps, it has long been fond of the other guy, but from a sense of guilt did not want to leave you, and fear of hurt ...

We know so little about those who live nearby. In any case, better to talk first. And the reaction you will see if you can save your love.

Women are strange substance, which rarely understand what you want. And they always feel sorry for all in every situation ... So if your bed was cold (despite the fact that the two of you in it), whether man-do something ...