Communication Etiquette

Every day we communicate with a wide range of people : at home, at work or in a shop or even on the street. And hardly think most of us on how they do it. And how we conduct ourselves, say zhestikuliruem, on the success of our communications and relationships samopodachi neighbors.

And if in the home, surrounded by loved ones, friends or good old colleagues all very easily, we do not need to create the impression, in other situations, our behaviour can be a decisive moment. Compliance with the etiquette of communication can make a difference in the presentation of your personality. So, if you are in an unfamiliar company, formal dinner or a business meeting, please remember all the rules. Better once learn "how to" and then feel confident in any situation.

A good tone in any company and in any formal meeting to be strangers to each other. But if for some reason did not happen, and the home owners or organizers of the event did not represent their guests, but must act itself is not the same walk around "biryukom."

Getting to know : how to present?

1. First, the best way to ask someone from present to you than to ask "how is your name? "Or" by the way, my name is ... "

2. Junior age or position are "senior", ie first call your name.

3. A woman in any circumstances is not the first man. Otherwise you will find legkomyslennuyu for certain special intentions. The only exception is if he suddenly president, or if the meeting is a no-nonsense character and the woman is with the host (such as receiving official delegations).

4. Introducing her husband, most unkind to say such a "gentleman". Suffice it to say, my husband and called his name. If your satellite is a comrade, friend or relative, you talk about it. When the situation warrants, is the kind of job.

5. If you are with strangers at the same table, it is not sitting, as in the subway, and not hurry nabrasyvatsya for food. Decent would first get to know your neighbors.

6. The main purpose of participation in public events, to engage in useful and pleasant familiarity. So do not be beech! Once you submit, smile, be sure to check out the new friend in the eye, tell me that you have the pleasure to welcome and optional hand.

Handshake

1. Generally handshake is a skill. Skating hand, try to express sincerity and warmth, see the person to whom welcome. Well, if you have a person that would be easy smile, even if it is purely business meeting. The positive atmosphere conducive to any communication.

2. Remember, any gesture in the language of non-verbal communication is no less than what the words. It felt your intentions, and emotions, and to the interlocutor. Therefore, submitting hand, be careful. Take your hand has been built strictly vertically, sharply down-meaning public welcome "equal" and a positive communication and good mood. This is ideal for first contact and official meetings.

When you give a hand, slightly onto her palms up, it is your willingness to trust and very close by and that you would be ready as a little person "subject", to follow up on his own. Such a gesture many might consider either subservience or for the imposition of an early friendship and panibratstvo.

If you offer a hand palm down, then put himself above the others, consider yourself stronger and smarter. Interlocutor can take it for coolness and arrogance.

3. And one more detail : women have great advantages when they do not have hands to remove gloves.

Speak to

The first and most important rule in the talk-cultural society is to put the accent in words. Not God forbid you say something wrong with it is your image and reputation will be damaged challenge. So potrudites in leisure remember what words are difficult and you look in the dictionary. And if you do not know how to put the accent, but very like about this phenomenon, either Refuse themselves in the pleasures and do not pick up this issue, or try to replace the word "problem" synonymous.

The second is the various swear words, slang prostonarodnye expression. Where ever you are, in a formal dinner or in the youth scene, the first being better forget about them. Any such words or expressions are highly motivated, and will use it, you risk to garner the attention and, most likely, not very positive.

Choose topics

Try not to discuss all of the tastes and opinions. Typically, they do not often coincide. You risk zateyat dispute or leave bad "inconsistencies" after the conversation. Do not start discussions on the philosophical positions of profound attitude, serious political issues. How would this not sound trite, but in an unfamiliar company or at the official launch is best to talk about the weather, animals, travel, new items to discuss cinema and literature.

Not vstrevayte specifically in conversation, not only to remain silent, if you are not aware of what is at stake, or not familiar with the subject. And do not try to talk about something specific, what you just experienced, wishing proslyt very smart to put someone to embarrass the same indecent.

Do not discuss in a negative vein place and the level of activities, meals and drinks, the behavior of other people and common friends.